Say nothing after a break up. To understand how to win back your ex you must understand that words are often empty so you should not speak. Say you think breaking up is a good idea and then walk away from the situation.
There will be some actual words exchanged, even so, try to avoid these clangers:
1. "But, I love you so much..." actually any phrase that contains love. This is not how to win back your ex. If you are honest with yourself it's a little late for this. You will be able to say it later but right now it will seem like desperation.
2. "I have changed..." Don't say this because you haven't changed. A couple of days is not enough time to change. Change is gradual. Possible you do have to make changes, but proof is more important than words.
3. "But I got you this or help you do that etc..." This is bringing up the past which won't be welcome now and it emphasizes debt. This is emotional blackmail and has to be avoided as you are sounding like your ex must pay back something.
4. "I can't live without you..." This is a blatant lie as you know you can. Be strong, your ex isn't the only match for you in the World! As you examine the situation you may decide that you don't want to win back your ex.
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